Brianne Huntsman

Jan 12 В· 6 min read

There’s bull crap within the LGBTQ+ community, that dating when you emerge is much like going right on through junior high again.

Growing up in rural Utah, everybody else got their awkward relationship jitters call at junior high and school that is high. Freak outs over texting, embarrassing crush confessionals, etc etc.

So when you begin dating as a person that is lgbtq+ alllll those junior high feels enter phase right — which is a FEELINGS PARTY.

And mine turned up with GUSTO once I arrived on the scene. (That entire story has arrived.)

[Note: I’m us i ng “coming down” in this context to denote some time the place where a person chooses up to now not in the cis/hetero experience. We notice that being released is a frequent procedure and build that not everybody experiences.]

I’ve had some run-ins that are awkward classes, therefore I’m going to tell y’all my learning moments to help you (ideally) make smarter choices.

[This post had been initially published back at my web log, but I’ve put the greater racey stuff here therefore Bing does not hate my web log!]

Lesson number 1: Telling Some Body You’re Thinking About Them

Y’all, i will be a coward. I am able to get fully up and talk right in front of a audience of 10,000+ individuals, not a problem!